Contain the crazy

My friend and i ( you see the grammar is improving lol i still can't believe i'm an English lit student too)were talking about something the other day that would strike fear into a mans heart . We were talking about containing the crazy . this means that when you meet a new person and enter a new relationship it is necessary to contain that crazy side of your personality e.g insecurities , bad or weird habits or suppressing your true feelings or thoughts. I don't know how we got to this conversation but at the end we decided one thing .. that it is when you contain the crazy at the beginning of the relationship that the person you are seeing will not end up in love with the real you . Instead they will be in love with the contained crazy persona you entered the relationship with . maybe this is the reason why relationships end because in the end the crazy is going to come out and that other person will wonder where the person they fell in love with went to.So here's the plan don't go into a relationship containing the crazy. It's okay to have insecurities etc a person should be loved because they are beautifully human which means they have faults. it will save a lot of heartache if you just go in the deep end naked than being weighed down with heavy clothes because in the end you might drown.if they can handle you when you haven't contained the crazy then they should be worth it because whoever is willing to take your crazy shit is a saint trust me. Besides you know that Jesus is just going to tell them how you really are when you get to those gates. nothing is probably worse than an ex in heaven mad at your ass